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Alice Young 2nd April 2023 This event has closed

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I'm running the Brighton Marathon for Laurence Wilson-Bradshaw. Laurence was first diagnosed with bowel cancer early in 2019 and passed away at the end of June last year, aged 31.

During those three years, Laurence remained strong, brave and characteristically silly despite the extreme ups and downs that came after that initial diagnosis. He made being part of his support team as easy as he could, shielding us wherever possible and reminding us to "TALK ABOUT POO!"

Writing this feels a bit like when I sat down to write my Groomsmaid of Honour speech for Laurence's wedding to Kit and when I wrote (with my other bestie Hannah) some words for his funeral - don't worry there is very little repetition for those who were at both! There are too many things to say so I will just say for those who did not know him, or did not know him well, I wish you had. My life is different without him - worse without him. He was a core part of everything I did from the age of 6 and I couldn't have been luckier to have the surname Young while he was Wilson (so the "punishment" of sitting in alphabetical order always worked out pretty well for us for the next 12 years)!! He was then stuck with me for the next 15 years of his life making it a solid 27 years together but this was still nowhere near enough time.  

We were (practically) neighbours, prom dates, deputy head boy/girl counterparts, work colleagues, one-time tennis partners and best friends. I remember him asking me if I would be up for doing a 100km walk for Bowel Cancer and I laughed, said it wasn't really my kind of thing then continued talking about some irrelevant work drama I now can't even remember. I wish I could go back and respond differently but I can't. So instead, here I am doing something even harder than that and actually RUNNING an entire 42.2km...!

I'm running the marathon with three of our other best friends who are also incredibly special to me. Two of them feature in the above photo which was taken a couple of days after Laurence's initial diagnosis... next to a waste disposal plant... by an A-road... on what I thought would be a beautiful scenic walk I planned to cheer everyone up! This was one of his favourite photos and I am sure he would be laughing that hard if he could see us training now. 

Please sponsor what you can and rest assured I will NEVER be doing this again so you can be generous..! 😜


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